Real Marriage DVD-Based Study Kit
The Truth About Sex, Friendship, and Life Together
by Mark and Grace Driscoll
When I first agreed to review this DVD series I wasn't paying as much attention to who wrote it as much as I was focused on the topic. So it didn't occur to me that the authors, Mark and Grace Driscoll, were at the top of the "controversial" list these days. With that being said, my review is completely independent of any strong opinions that seem to be floating around about Driscoll and his theology. I also recognize that not being married also affects the relevance of this particular series for me, but I felt I should still be able to learn from it.
This DVD-series is made up of 11 chapters with each session lasting no more than 15 minutes. They talk about marriage as friendship, men's role in marriage, women's role in marriage, grace, sex and even porn and it's effect on a marriage. In theory this should have been a great series. I often believe that people are not as open or honest about real marriage - the good, bad and ugly associated with it. While I know that marriage is hard I thought why not hear from some long-time married folks about what it's really like to be married. And I think that the Driscoll's gave an honest perspective of their marriage. What they failed to do was present an engaging or even Biblically-based account of marriage. Scripture is mentioned throughout. And it might have been in context had I actually read the book that should accompany this series but it was not available to me. I do not think at this point it would be worth reviewing either as I didn't find myself in agreement with their thoughts and knowing more about the controvery surrounding the Driscoll's I find it difficult to respect what they have to say about a God-honoring marriage.
I received a copy of this book from Thomas Nelson Publishers as part of their book review program. I was not required to write a positive review; the opinions expressed are my own. I am disclosing this in accordance with the Federal Trade Commission's 16, Part 255 "Guides Concerning the Use of Endorsements and Testimonials in Advertising."